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A different form of ethics

Working with consciousness, systems and field dynamics requires a different form of ethics than classical psychological or professional codes. Not stricter — but finer. Not more rules — but more precision.

Because in this work you don't work with diagnoses or protocols, but with fields, coherence, vibration and human state, the way you look, listen and are present determines what becomes possible.

That is why I apply my own form of ethics: field ethics — a way of working that respects the consciousness field and the human being without disturbing the system.

This ethics is not a list of prohibitions. It is an attitude. A precision instrument. A way of being present that keeps the field pure.

No steering, only attunement

I never steer in a direction. Direction that doesn't fit pollutes the field.

I always follow:

  • the state of the system
  • the movement that is already visible
  • the coherence that emerges
  • the truth that presents itself

Ethics means: never manipulate, never push, never "fix". Only attune to what fits.

Never fill in what the other cannot carry

In field work you can see a lot — sometimes more than someone can carry at that moment.

Therefore:

  • If the other cannot carry it, I don't speak it.
  • No projections, no grand truths, no conclusions that reach further than someone's system can process.

Truth must land, not overwhelm.

The field leads, not my preference

My personal preference, conviction or judgment plays no role.

I follow exactly one compass: the field is always right.

If the system indicates that something is off, I correct myself — not the system.

Clarity above being right

I never work to be right. Being right is ego. Clarity is field logic.

Clarity:

  • lowers tension
  • brings direction back
  • makes patterns visible
  • gives people their own power back

That is always the purpose.

Never make the system heavier than necessary

A field is refined. You can break it with:

  • too many words
  • too fast interventions
  • too hard interpretations
  • too big steps

Ethics means: do exactly the lightest intervention that works. Not more. Not less.

Every person remains owner of their own field

I never take over someone's field. I don't carry. I don't rescue. I don't fix.

My positions stay clear:

  • I observe (I)
  • I sense direction (V)
  • I let the field speak (O)

And I leave someone's ownership where it belongs. Only this way the work stays mature and pure.

No diagnosis, no labels, no tags

I don't stick labels on people. I don't diagnose. I don't typify.

I look at:

  • tension
  • direction
  • noise
  • rhythm
  • coherence

Behaviour is never a defect. Behaviour is always a movement within a system.

Silence as instrument

Silence is field language. Silence is not empty — but charged.

In silence a system can:

  • settle
  • land
  • reset
  • find direction

Ethics means: don't fill silence. Some things only happen when you don't intervene.

Confidentiality without noise

Everything that arises in a field, stays in that field.

  • I share nothing with third parties.
  • I repeat nothing outside of context.
  • I don't dramatise.
  • I don't amplify.

Purity is safety.

The human above the model

The I–V–O model is strong. QBM is clear and precise.

But no model is more important than a human being.

I adapt the model to the experience — never the experience to the model.

No magic, no promises, no mysticism

I don't work with secrets, promises or tricks.

I never suggest that I:

  • see something you're not allowed to know
  • have access to something "higher"
  • can manipulate the field
  • can predict anything

I stay sober, clear and concrete. That makes the work safe and effective.

Direction must fit the system, not me

The only test:

  • does the direction fit?
  • does the system relax?
  • does it become lighter?
  • does it become true?

If it doesn't fit, I return to observing. If it does fit, it moves by itself.

Ethics is a form of coherence

Working ethically = working without noise.

That means:

  • no agenda
  • no ego
  • no pushing
  • no adding tension

Coherence is the foundation of this work — and the ethics follow the same logic.

What doesn't resonate, passes by

My consciousness is the instrument I work with. That instrument must stay clear, otherwise the field becomes clouded.

That's why I live by one practical principle: what doesn't resonate, passes by. Not out of rejection. But out of protection of this precision.

Non-resonance gives three signals:

  • The instrument picks up noise — If I work with something that doesn't fit, I start compensating. That distorts my perception — and that is unethical.
  • It helps no one — A mismatch in resonance makes the work heavy: the field tightens, the other doesn't land, the process becomes clouded.
  • Resonance is safety — If something fits, you feel it immediately. If something doesn't fit, I don't force it.

The other deserves clarity. And my instrument deserves protection.

Therefore: if it doesn't resonate, it passes by. If it does resonate, it comes to me naturally.

Purity of presence

Ethics in this work is not about rules. It's about purity of presence.

The field only works when:

  • the observer is clear
  • the direction is soft
  • the context is attuned
  • and the intervention stays light

That is my ethics. That is my way of working. And that is the foundation on which Design by Authenticity operates.