Step 1
From wish to core
Write at the top of a page what you think you want. For example: "I want more peace" or "I want a different job".
Then ask yourself three times: "Why?" Each time you go a layer deeper.
Stop only when you arrive at a formulation that feels more like a state of being than a concrete goal, for example: "I want to move at my own pace" or "I want to fully use my talent".